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Young Stupid Roomer (by GKARL [PA]) Nov 15, 2018 7:17 PM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by Tom [FL]) Nov 15, 2018 7:25 PM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by Livethedream [AZ]) Nov 15, 2018 7:27 PM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by Smokowna [MD]) Nov 15, 2018 7:45 PM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by BRAD 20,000 [IN]) Nov 15, 2018 9:59 PM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by BRAD 20,000 [IN]) Nov 15, 2018 10:00 PM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by Ken [NY]) Nov 15, 2018 10:08 PM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by Vee [OH]) Nov 15, 2018 10:09 PM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by GKARL [PA]) Nov 16, 2018 2:02 AM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by razorback_tim [AR]) Nov 16, 2018 3:28 AM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by LindaJ [NY]) Nov 16, 2018 6:08 AM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by AllyM [NJ]) Nov 16, 2018 6:32 AM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by Ken [NY]) Nov 16, 2018 6:58 AM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by GKARL [PA]) Nov 16, 2018 8:08 AM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by Oregon Woodsmoke [ID]) Nov 16, 2018 8:14 AM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by GKARL [PA]) Nov 16, 2018 8:23 AM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by RB [MI]) Nov 16, 2018 12:54 PM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by dlb [GA]) Nov 16, 2018 1:20 PM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by Pat [VA]) Nov 16, 2018 1:31 PM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by plenty [MO]) Nov 16, 2018 4:01 PM
       Young Stupid Roomer (by Robert J [CA]) Nov 17, 2018 9:23 PM


Young Stupid Roomer (by GKARL [PA]) Posted on: Nov 15, 2018 7:17 PM
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Had a young lady about 20 years old move in about a month ago. Nice girl, but just immature. Strated off trying to be late with the rent. Put my foot down, charged late fees and made her pay. Second week, she paid on time with no problem. Third week was late again. I threatened with eviction. Mom calls to pay the rent for her but tenant borrows from grandparents and pays even though mother promises to pay rent in the future. Tenant moves out with no warning before next rent is due. Room was not left in the best of shape and a bean bag chair I bought for the room is missing. I have her SD, so I'm more than whole. She calls me today from a Walmart parking lot saying it's cold and she wants her old room back. Says she has a consistent job and has been homeless since she moved out. Thoughts? --172.56.xx.xxx




Young Stupid Roomer (by Tom [FL]) Posted on: Nov 15, 2018 7:25 PM
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Do you want the hassle of chasing the rent? Then rent to her however have her pay by the month she wants her old room back.

On the flip side she never told you she was leaving, strike against her.

She took a chair that was not hers, striking two against her.

She's late with her rents, always chasing rents. strike 3 against her.

Does the 3 strikes matter to you? If not then rent to her. Unless you have more tenants other than her. --99.56.xx.xx




Young Stupid Roomer (by Livethedream [AZ]) Posted on: Nov 15, 2018 7:27 PM
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Nope.

In your operation you might want to develop some resources for those about to be homeless. Shelters, local temp labor office, churches, etc. Give them a flyer with the info and wish 'em luck. --47.216.xx.xxx




Young Stupid Roomer (by Smokowna [MD]) Posted on: Nov 15, 2018 7:45 PM
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Is the mom out of state? Grandparents out of state?

--108.51.xxx.xxx




Young Stupid Roomer (by BRAD 20,000 [IN]) Posted on: Nov 15, 2018 9:59 PM
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G,

I suggest she has a mental issue. 2 people guaranteeing her rent and she moves into her car on purpose!?

The parent and grandparent jumping in so easily makes me think she has had problems like this in the past.

BRAD --68.50.xxx.xxx




Young Stupid Roomer (by BRAD 20,000 [IN]) Posted on: Nov 15, 2018 10:00 PM
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I REALLY wish there was a legal way to ask if they are on meds for mood or bi-polar.

Once I learned about bi-polar an awful lot of strange behavior by residents started to make sense.

BRAD --68.50.xxx.xxx




Young Stupid Roomer (by Ken [NY]) Posted on: Nov 15, 2018 10:08 PM
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I wouldn't rent to her again,that would send a poor message to the other tenants in that building. --72.231.xxx.xxx




Young Stupid Roomer (by Vee [OH]) Posted on: Nov 15, 2018 10:09 PM
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Process the move-out just like any other, follow your court timing. The car must have a great heater and outhouse. --76.188.xxx.xx




Young Stupid Roomer (by GKARL [PA]) Posted on: Nov 16, 2018 2:02 AM
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Brad, I don't get into a tenant's personal affairs more than I need to, but I wondered why she wasn't just living with her mother. Her mother had been in contact with me on a couple of occasions; once to pay her SD and to bail her out this last time around. Part of her problem is these folks bailing her out. Maybe the best thing for her is some cold nights in the car. Yes, a mental condition can't be excluded. Mother and grandparents are local. Her suite mate knows her also because she dated her nephew. --172.56.xx.xxx




Young Stupid Roomer (by razorback_tim [AR]) Posted on: Nov 16, 2018 3:28 AM
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Pass. --70.178.x.xx




Young Stupid Roomer (by LindaJ [NY]) Posted on: Nov 16, 2018 6:08 AM
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No, she wasn't a good tenant, why sign up again. --108.4.xxx.xx




Young Stupid Roomer (by AllyM [NJ]) Posted on: Nov 16, 2018 6:32 AM
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Oh no, don't take her back. Her family needs to either take her in or find a shelter for her or a halfway house of some kind with a live in caregiver. You have enough problems and are not trained to help her. But I would notify the parent or grandparent that she has moved out and you might pass on the message about her being cold in the car. --73.178.xxx.xx




Young Stupid Roomer (by Ken [NY]) Posted on: Nov 16, 2018 6:58 AM
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GKARK,she is not living with mother or grandparent because she burned that bridge already,they help her for 2 reasons,a guilty concinence for not letting her live with them and if they pay for her to live somewhere it creates less drama for them having to tell her no she cant move into there houses --72.231.xxx.xxx




Young Stupid Roomer (by GKARL [PA]) Posted on: Nov 16, 2018 8:08 AM
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Ken, that's a good point and one I hadn't considered. --172.56.xx.xx




Young Stupid Roomer (by Oregon Woodsmoke [ID]) Posted on: Nov 16, 2018 8:14 AM
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She was there for, what?, three weeks? And in such a short time she managed to leave the room in bad condition and there is furniture missing.

No telling how much damage she could do with an entire winter to work at it. She's fast and efficient with the damage.

Maybe mental health, or maybe drugs, or maybe both. I wouldn't want to deal with her. --174.216.xx.xxx




Young Stupid Roomer (by GKARL [PA]) Posted on: Nov 16, 2018 8:23 AM
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I texted her mother about her situation and she was unaware and was appreciative of the text. There's definitely some sort of disconnect between them and mom probably needs to step up to help her. It doesn't sound like they have the contact between each other that they should. --208.54.xx.xxx




Young Stupid Roomer (by RB [MI]) Posted on: Nov 16, 2018 12:54 PM
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Next ! --184.53.x.x




Young Stupid Roomer (by dlb [GA]) Posted on: Nov 16, 2018 1:20 PM
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You should:

- Process the move out

- File for eviction for not paying rent

- Deduct as per the law, for damages, theft, legal filings...

Contact her

- Agree to allow her to move back in with the stipulation of paying rent 2 weeks in advance

- Pay a security deposit (again)

Let her know that she now has an eviction on her record

Move her back in

Either she will learn or leave --76.111.xx.xx




Young Stupid Roomer (by Pat [VA]) Posted on: Nov 16, 2018 1:31 PM
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I'd be careful about giving mom info. Might backfire. If you can do better, pass. Too much drama, you shouldn't have to take to raise!

I have a 49 year old cousin that my Aunt did all she could for, he is an alcoholic. When she died, he had to clear out of her apartment. I've checked online he has arrests for DIP, etc. He stayed on the streets for a couple of weeks, went with his sister to MD to live for about a year and wound back up in Roanoke. Homeless. Again.

It is more than sad, but people have tried to help. Sometimes, you just can't make the choices for them. --71.51.xxx.xxx




Young Stupid Roomer (by plenty [MO]) Posted on: Nov 16, 2018 4:01 PM
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Pull up a seat (wheres my Beab Bag chair) and lets talk... where the bean bag chair? --99.203.xx.xxx




Young Stupid Roomer (by Robert J [CA]) Posted on: Nov 17, 2018 9:23 PM
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I rented a 3 bedroom apartment to a graduate student going for her masters degree. She had great credit and a solid job. She was a part time student.

She then got two roommates, also students but with no degree and spotty jobs. One roommate got a dog, not allowed in the lease. These three women prided themselves on being dressed well. They had so much cloths that they used the floor as a place to store folded laundry. The dog saw this as a perfect place to pee. The place smelled like a locker room. --47.156.xx.xx





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