TAKE CARE OF WHAT YOU NEED TO NOW ... PLEASE !!!!! --72.95.xx.xxx

I think that, unless you are much older, none of us wants to think about our own mortality. --71.75.xx.xx

Nicole, I'm going to live to 150, just to be a,well you know,and if I don't ,I'll come back to haunt them! And tell them what's out there,No one has come back to tell me,especially some of the people I thought would? ................charlie............................................... --174.199.x.xxx

Already have my will, living will, durable power of attorney, etc., in place. Been to funeral home and selected casket, vault, etc. Also, have a "Do Not Resuscitate" in place. --76.0.xxx.xx

I keep telling everyone that when they visit my grave that I will be standing behind them. --76.0.xxx.xx

Along those lines: Make sure your Beneficiary designations are up to date. --100.6.xx.xxx

Dying...yes, we all get there some day. Everyone who is age 18 or old should have: Will (yes, even college students), Durable Power of Attorney, Healthcare Power of Attorney, etc. those are basics every legal adult should have, regardless of whether their estate is worth $1 of $100,000,000. You simply don't KNOW what someone really wanted done unless it's on paper, and I've seen parts of my wife's family torn apart over an estate worth less than $50,000. --173.17.xx.xx

Thanks for the reminder. I really need to do that. Very well said. --73.33.xxx.xxx

Been to a local Funeral Parlour many times this past several years,but it's not to straighten up things,just to pay my respects.and it is getting frustrating,All my friends are leaving and none have come back to say where they've gone.Miss Ally,can you help?............charlie............................................................I don't really know what to think,things don't really add up............................... --174.199.x.xxx

cjo'h I'm surprised. People from your country are sensitive to these kinds of things. Your friends are with you some times and sometimes traveling to special places and seeing special things. Your friends were at their funerals. Men like to see a lot of cars going to the cemetery. Women like to see a lot of flowers. If you call to them in kind of a prayer, they will come to see you. They will try to help you by making comments to you and giving you warnings. These you can hear or feel on the left side of your head. It's kind of a listening that you have to do. I'm partially deaf on that side so there is no sound coming in to get in the way of the quiet little comments they make. Remember when Jesus said "Whenever two or more of you are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of you." It doesn't just work with Jesus because when you stand around talking with another person about one of your friends or relatives that have passed, or a dog or cat, they come right to you. Loving spirits feel warm so you may feel a little hot flash. You might feel a touch o the top of your head or a little chill on your spine. There are a couple of books that you can read by Allison DuBois. One is "Don't kiss them goodbye". The other is "We are their Heaven". Or if you really want a scare, read "When Ghosts Speak". Can't remember the author's name but she talks about all the bad stuff too. They haven't gone anywhere that they can't visit from. Since you thought about this and posted it, you are probably surrounded right now. Are you feeling chilly? --73.33.xxx.xxx

I plan to die broke with my credit cards maxed out and let the last checks bounce. ;) --47.216.xx.xxx

cjo'h, if you are asking why so many of your friends are passing it may be because people, men in particular, ignore symptoms until it's too late. I had no symptoms of uterine cancer and heard someone say to me in the night, "you have uterine cancer, get to a gynecologist". So I did and it was just in time, I hope but I do have to be checked every six months because there is the possibility of a return since it had progressed to Grade 1 but Stage 3. I remember a mental push for me to get checked prior to the auditory message but my doctor had moved quite a ways away through some bad traffic patterns and many of the ones I called were not taking patients. So some dead guy had to make a special visit to give me a verbal message. --73.33.xxx.xxx

I'll echo what you said - DO IT NOW! --71.175.xxx.xxx

In my mind, I am still young. I find myself comparing me to my Aunts and Uncles when they were my current age. I never seem to get caught up. But at least a few things are correct at this point - I am not going to live fore ever, and my hair disappeared from the top of my head and is growing out my ears. --24.101.xxx.xxx